Jon Allen’s recent interest in what enables us to feel connected in personal relationships evolved from writing his book, Trusting in Psychotherapy (American Psychiatric Publishing, 2022). Ideally, trust is reciprocal: Each individual is trusting of the other and trustworthy to the other. Trusting entails hope that the other will be trustworthy. Trust and hope imply doubt: without doubt, concern about trust would not enter our mind; without doubt, we would have no need for hope. With hope that we can trust, we count on others for care, concern, and help; concomitantly, knowing and caring that we are counting on them motivates others to be trustworthy. Trusting in others and their responsiveness to trust requires an intuitive feeling of connection. The feeling of connection implies a connector: Where is the connection? Recent psychoanalytic literature introduces the concept of “the Third” as a link between the two individuals. This link is a joint creation that influences and shapes the individuals who are creating it. In short, the creation creates the creators. Think of an enlivened conversation that leads to unforeseen territory. Jon experiences the Third in playing jazz piano in a trio. Sharing an interest in this elusive experience of the Third, Jon and Cyrus Wirls agree that we are in the realm of spirituality, which they will discuss in this book spotlight.